I've Got a Secret: And It's Not Deodorant

How your smell can help you !

by Rafael Corney, dating coach

Every article you read about attracting women, what women want, being a successful dater, and so on will tell you that being cleaned, spit and polished, and well-groomed are unequivocal essentials to success.

Guess what guys, I'm going to tell you that a little body odor goes a long way. That's right ? BO, as in pits, sweat, grease and grime.

No, I am not crazy. No, I have not lost it. No, I am not going to steer you wrong. Yes, I have more experience and success than any dating guru out there.

Here's the deal. I positively agree that being clean and well-groomed is absolutely necessary. In fact, I've written all about that very thing in my book and training program. And of course, you'll read the same thing in every other program and book. But what you won't read is that once you have proven yourself with a woman with a few face-to-face meetings, and a clean, shining, cologne-smelling body, there should come a time when due to circumstances out of your control, you show up with your un-showered, mussed-hair, odoriferous-pit bod. You with me so far, guys?

Good, because this is the pivotal point, and it can go either way. You know how I'm always talking about cocky confidence? Aha ? well, I don't care how embarrassed (she'll wish you were ? as in em-bare-assed!), self-conscious, or miserable you feel in your, shall we say, "raw" state. It's date time. You are due to pick up Sharon in 10 minutes, and if you were to go home first, shower and dress, you would not make it to her house for another hour an a half. Not an option. So, instead guys, park that BMW in front of her house, walk up to the door, and when she answers, I want you to say something like: "Sharon, it's been a long day. I'm going to take you with me to my house and fix you a nice glass of pinot grigio while I shower and then we'll get on with our evening."

Then, take her arm, with gentle firmness, escort her to the car, and with your cocky confident attitude, carry on. While you're talking, make sure you put your right elbow on the arm rest with your pit directly facing her. Also, every now and then, make a show of pushing your wild and messy hair back out of your eyes ? make it a meaningful gesture filled with angst and exhaustion. Gents, trust me, she is going to be sitting there wishing she could jump on your bones. In fact ? you might not even make it to the shower!

Rafael Corney is a dating coach and has decided to put his knowledge to the Internet, and help thousands of (classy young) men to learn and master the skills that are essential for a long lasting relationship as well as how to spark the attraction that a woman can feel in his ?zone?. He can be reached at his blog, don?t forget the quiz at www.Rafael-Corney.com